The average lap dance lasts two minutes and twenty-seven seconds. In that time, conversations between lap dance beneficiaries (“Patrons”) and his (or her) benefactors (“Strippers”) tightly toe the superficial line. The exchange may go something like this: …...(Sexy Dancing)…...
Stripper: “You make me so hot…I’ve never felt like this about anyone…(interspersed with heavy petting)…(interspersed with heavy breathing)…Ooooooh, Aaaaaahh, Oooooyyyy….Would you like another dance?”
Patron: “You’re so hot…Yeah, do that…come on baby don’t stop…(interspersed with heavy breathing)…(interspersed with a valiant, yet ultimately unsuccessful, effort to refrain from getting a boner/female boner)... I would/would not like another dance….”
Once this highly unfulfilling pseudo-ballet ends, Stripper and Patron head to the bar to continue their conversation. What do they talk about? What should they talk about? Why do they talk about the things they talk about? Deriving precise answers to these questions requires a thorough understanding of Euclidian physics and, more precisely, something called “space-time.” Unfortunately, only one person on this planet possesses a thorough understanding of both these subjects, and he certainly has better things to do than ponder Patron-Stripper dialogues (or does he?).
For now, suffice it to say that Patron-Stripper conversations are functions of Patrons’ “identity.” My research indicates that Patrons fall into four general categories:
(1) Sappy romantics: (Age): 21-29 (Special Ability): Discussing Strippers’ hopes, dreams, and aspirations, believing that sentimentality will help them secure a date.
(2) Not-so Casanovas: (Age): 25-57 (Special Ability): Smooth talking their way out of $500 more than what they originally intended to spend.
(3) False Messiahs: (Age): 35-48 (Special Ability): Leading Strippers out of Sodom to Gomorra, completely bypassing the Promised Land.
(4) Professionals: (Age): Only experience matters (Special Ability): Keepin’ it real.
These categories are by no means exhaustive. Nevertheless, they provide a solid foundation for deciphering how best to talk to Strippers. Take, for example, the “Sappy Romantics.” While they create opportunities for Strippers to momentarily “escape” their current predicaments by imagining what their lives could be, dwelling too long on unreachable hopes and aspirations will undoubtedly depress Strippers, causing them to dance a lot less sexy for the rest of us. Like all the professional sports franchises that play in Madison Square Garden, Strippers who give less than maximum effort play golf in the off-season.
The “Not-so Casanovas” do not fare much better. Although they spend their money freely, they do not spend it wisely. For example, spending your stimulus check on three extra lap dances (or an $800 happy ending, Really Hustler Club, Really?) will not help resurrect the American economy. The last time I checked, pasties, Astroglide, and shame do not comprise a large portion of American GDP. However, increasing spending on stripper poles may help our nation’s steel industry. Alas.
Ah! My favorite category: the “False Messiahs.” Having never read the Talmud, the New Testament, or even the Reverend Dr. Sir His Majesty Creflo Dollar’s award-winning book, “8 Steps to Create the Life You Want: The Anatomy of a Successful Life,” which coincidently spent a whopping twenty-six weeks atop the New York City Subway’s “Perhaps Glance At of 2006,” the “False Messiahs” vow to “save” the “fallen.” Fortunately, Strippers possess a remarkable ability to smell bullshit. Perhaps this is a consequence of eating it all the time (proverbially, I hope). Thus, “False Messiahs” rarely (if ever) succeed, leaving Strippers to find more suitable prey.
Finally, there are the “Professionals.” These are the strip club veterans, the nothing-but-business, No-nonsense, don’t give me the old song and dance, Cats. The “Professionals” have two purposes: to drink and look at Strippers; they have no other agenda. This attitude helps relieve stress, preserve families, saves the whales, and is currently devising a workable one-and-a-half-state solution to the Middle East crisis. However, this attitude also dehumanizes Strippers. It transforms them into commodities…(pause for self-reflection). Fortunately, if you own stock in Rick's Cabaret International, Inc. (RICK-Nasdaq, $6.86 per share) you don’t lose sleep over such things (unless of course Rick’s releases less than stellar quarterly earnings resulting from decreased Stripper output).
Ultimately, it may not matter how you talk to Strippers. Just make sure to tip wisely and not fall in love.